Sunday, June 24, 2007

July 1 Topic>> Sus Ginoo!

Nandun si Kidlat Tahimik! Siya ang assigned mag discuss tungkol sa ugali ng mga binata noong araw. Gentleman pa rin ba ang mga Pinoy? Yan ang tanong.
Ms. Earth 2006, Cathy Untalan bravely ventured to represent ladies that night, up against the male poets of Los Chupacabras. She notes that sometimes gentlemen are only gentlemen when they have ulterior motives. Pero hindi naman daw extinct ang mga maginoo.
Viva Los Chupacabras! Easy, Joel, Carl, and Mikael. Gentlemen, all. With their own poetic takes on the question at hand.

Ang idol kong si Joel Toledo ang nagsabi na hindi naman ata gender thing ang pagiging gentleman. Kung ang ibig natin sabihin sa pagiging gentleman ay isang taong considerate, matulungin, mapagbigay sa ibang tao. Human being decorum talaga yon, na hindi lang dapat naka ipit sa mga kalalakihan.
Easy, lead vocals is steady and sure on his stance that being a gentleman should not just be a response to someone who is a 'lady.' Kailangang standard siya and you yourself should set your bar.
Sabi ni Marj, napaka interesting mapansin na parang mas madami talaga ang gentlemanly ang demeanor sa probinsya kesa dito sa urban areas. Ang flip side naman nung coin na iyon ay baka mas chauvinistic din sila? Hindi naman pangkalahatan yon kundi obserbasyon lang ng isang babae na may pagkakataong ma-expose sa rural at urban men.
Legendary film maker Kidlat Tahimik shares on air the decorum of young men of UP Diliman in the 60's. Ang mga formal gatherings noon ay talagang halos pang demo ng "proper ethics and chivalry." Pero kailangan daw nating itanong si Ms. Sylvia Mayuga (na dapat guest din ngayong gabi kaya lang nagka lituhan sa schedule ng sunduan, sorry Ma'am!) ...dahil date ni Kidlat si Sylvia sa isang frat ball nung college. Upsilonian si Kidlat. Gentleman pa daw ba ang mga Upsilonian ngayon?
Si Cathy talaga ay may set stance against men who are only gentlemen to pretty women. Gentlemanyak daw talaga ang iba. She emphasizes the cruel stereotype she has to face as a beauty queen. Yung misconception daw na ang mga byuti kween ay mahihina o hindi matapang. Si Cathy ay matalino, maligalig, at may dunong. Hindi naive sa mga bagay bagay pero may trust and innocence level pa rin ng mahinhing babae. Nakakatuwa siyang panoorin makipag-verbal-boksing kina Mikael.
Si Mikael ay isang grad student sa hindi ko alam kung saan, haha, malamang UP Diliman din. Ang theory naman niya, kung nag dedemand naman ang kababaihan ng equality and the likes, eh di dapat wag na din maging prinsesa ang mga babae na parang mababasag kung hindi pag buksan ng pinto. Magaganda ang mga punto ni Mikael, parang lahat ng sinabi nya pwedeng ipang-topic sa iba pang mga episodes. Yung archetypes. Yung breaking down of the fixed notions and etc. Ang saya nito!

Si Carl ang walang pakundangang gentleman. Lahat ng naibahagi ni Carl ay yung mga gusto, malamang, madinig ng lola't nanay ko kung meron man akong pakakasalan. Maginoo at gentleman-dapat-lahat-full-stop ang stance niya. Both for women and men daw. Ang galing nila, lahat teacher.
Napadaan lang chamba ay si Cynthia Alexander. Wala daw siyang issue kung gentleman o hindi ang mga lalake, basta siya gentlelady at dapat pantay, mabait, at considerate ang pakikitungo ng bawa't isa sa bawa't isa. (parang mali mali ang Filipino ko no, Joel? Pwede bang mag episode summary sa Bisaya next time? Baka mas okey yon para sa kin...hehe)

Yung anak naman ni Kidlat Tahimik na si Kidlat de Guia, wala, nakisingit lang habang nag vivideo document ng episode. Hindi ko po ma alala ang sinabi nya kasi tawang tawa kami sa isang comment na ang gwapo daw niya sa radyo.

Pag dating sa behaviour, individuals talaga ang nagseset ng sarili na nyang standard. Bagamat may statistical norm o mga linya, malaya tayong makitungo sa kung ano mang paraang gustuhin natin. Pero ang isang napagkasunduan ng lahat, ay sana may kasamang ugaling mapagbigay at maalaga ang lahat ng Pilipino.

Pang byuti contest yung sagot na yon 'no. Pero kung si Cathy ang tanunging mo, ang sagot ng byuti kwin ay hindi general o safe. Ang sagot ng byuti kwin ay may tapang at talas. At, utang na loob, pagbuksan niyo pa rin ng pintuan ang mga nanay ninyo ha.

Wala na ako gaanong maalala, halos isang buwan na ang nakalipas mula sa episode na ito, kaya lang ngayon ko lang nakuha ang photos kaya ayun.

Patatawarin naman ako ng mga Chupacabras kasi ipa-plug ko ang soon-to-be-released album nila entitled "Release the Evil" ...sa mid September daw abangan, suportahan at tangkilikin. Bukod don, okey lang sa kanila ang pagkukulang ko sa pag update ng episode nila kasi gentleman sila lahat. (naks)

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Gentleman pa ba ang mga Pinoy? Mahinhin pa ba ang mga Pinay?

Malakas na yata si Maganda, at tama lang yon. Si Malakas naman, kamusta na?

A light discussion on gender differences. Listen to the poets of Los Chupacabras headed by the poet JOEL TOLEDO level it off with Ms. Earth 2006 beauty queens, CATHY UNTALAN and some the other queens of her court. AH HAH! And joining us tonight will be the legendary film-maker -- KIDLAT TAHIMIK. Sayang hindi kita ang bahag sa radyo. And the lovely writer MS. SYLVIA MAYUGA. (kwela 'to, si Ma'am!)

After discussing homelessness, (ANG BIGAT KASI NUUUUNN) magpahinga muna tayo at mag usapang ugali muna. Magaan, malakas, maganda. Whew.

Magtanong kayo ng KAHIT ANO! si Team Toledo at si Team Earth ang makakapanayam, kasama si Kidlat sa Team Earth. Dahil mas maganda pa pwet niya kesa sa mga byuti kwin naten.




Note:

Malakas at Maganda
Philippine Folklore

Malakas and Maganda is about the origin of the native Filipinos.

When Bathala (God) was done creating the world, he was bored. He looked down over the earth and sent a bird into the world. The bird was flying around when it heard some sounds and tapping somewhere in the forest.The bird landed and found out that the sound is coming from a huge bamboo. He started pecking on it and pretty soon it split in the middle where a man came out of it. His name was Malakas, which means strong, and he told the bird, "My mate is in the other piece of wood." They got her out and her name was Maganda which means beautiful. The two got on the bird's back and flew away to find some place to live. They went flying around the world, and then finally, the bird saw a land and let the two giants set foot and live on it. When Malakas and Maganda stepped on the land their weight separated the land into islands (Philippines has 7,200 islands). Malakas and Maganda live on and produced millions of children, which came to be the Filipinos.

June 24: 'Engeng Bahay

The topic of homelessness is too looming to be discussed in any setting, most especially on-air within just one hour. Large and frightening as it is, Rock Ed Radio agreed to take a shot at discussing an overview of this harsh reality. So Lourd and I prepared well for this one. (Warning: Smoking Kills. Don't try this at home.) After researching on our own, it was agreed that we didn't know squat about the country's housing problem (pun intended)--all we had were questions. So we invited the experts. Topbilling our roster of guests is Home Guaranty Corporation's President, Mr. Gonzalo "Bong" Bongolan. He explains that the HGC is one of six agencies of the government that works to address the problem of housing. It is a government-owned and controlled corporation, that operates a credit program to promote home ownership. HGC is compelled by law (RA 8763) to give more attention to low-cost housing. The Law provides that 70% of their efforts must be allocated to prioritize lower-cost packages. In other words, inuuna nila ang mga sakto-sakto lang ang income. Kapos-kapos, pero kaya pa naman. (O parang ganun...)

HGC's clients are banks and lenders, including the Pag Ibig fund that assists easier payment plans for those who can afford homes for as long as the terms are kinder. Minsan hirap magbigay ng loan ang mga bangko kasi housing talaga ay matagalan ang bayaran. Kung kaya't mabagal ang balik ng investment sa kanila. HGC gives them go-signals, even incentives to go ahead and support these people. On paper, kakampi mo ang HGC! naks. (Teka baka hindi accurate ito.... I'll re-ask Bong to write and post his definition again on this blog entry...) Ma'am Teacher not listening. But if you should know, I did my research. Now do yours. Surf the HGC website. Bong reiterates that the solutions to resolve homelessness is not about building houses alone. It is also the building of educational institutions in the rural areas, sources of employment, rural development. Whew. Any questions? ( I know I do! Baka kailangan ng second part itong episode na 'to....) Then, of course, we have Team Unity's deputy spokesperson Tonypet Albano guesting as a champion of Gawad Kalinga in his native Isabela. (A week late! haha) He says that Gawad Kalinga's approach is different. They really prioritize the poorest of the poor. Those who cannot afford at all. Those who have none. He explains that it is an offering to collectives who really have nothing to start with. Many big businesses contribute to the growth of Gawad Kalinga and President Arroyo was the one who jumpstarted the fund way back when she donated (wait, whose money?) to build the first thousand homes. Gawad Kalinga believes in value formation and right behaviour in communities. They disallow drinking in public and indecent demeanor in the respective areas. (nakupo, bawal uminom sa labas ng bahay.... Lourd! At bawal daw ang walang tishert o nagto-tong-its sa tapat ng mga bahay-bahay.... lampas kalahati ng UP Diliman hindi na puwedeng manirahan sa GK Village, kung gayon...) Tonypet's point is that a decent living condition really helps in eradicating what GK calls "the slum mentality" and all the bad behaviour that supposedly comes with that squalid territory. Hmmm. He mentions that competing businesses help and outbuild each other within the GK confines. He also says even rival political clans try to outdo each other in helping GK out. And that's unusual. And perhaps that can be an indication of hope for this ominous problem of ours. Also representing Gawad Kalinga is Mike "G-Money" Mercado. He is a rap artist and he is part of the head committee to recruit in the North Manila chapter. He shared that GK is more than just building houses. It is really more about building the figurative community. With programs like education and community building in place, they don't merely build shells. There's a big stress on what they call "sweat equity" and the physical contributions of people in the actual site. One builds his neighbor's home, so in turn, the neighbor builds their home. According to Greg, this kind of arrangement really fosters the bayanihan spirit because he explains --- no one would really wish harm on another person especially when he helped build your home. (Nga naman.) Values formation is stressed again by Mercado. I think the premium of the goals of GK is really found within the poetic homes and villages they build for people. Yung mga hindi nakikita ng mata. Greg is the one who was most on fire last night. I was wrong in saying that it was because he's young, I think it's really because he has it in him to have true hope and a positive vision of the future. In any case, every old fogey in the studio wishes that he doesn't lose his idealism to the cynicism of so-called adulthood. Greg-- may your reality be nurturing of that positive outlook of yours. Don't let anyone put out that fire. I guess. But what do I know.... Haha. Ah since I'm here, lemme plug Greg's album coming out entitled GK 1MB: Isang Milyong Bayani, suportahan ninyo yon. It's a rap/hip-hop album promoting the values that Gawad Kalinga uphold.
Habitat for Humanity was formidably represented by Warren Ubongen. He explains also that "sweat equity" is prime in Habitat. In fact, if I'm not mistaken, it was Habitat for Humanity that coined that term during its inception. People are encouraged to earn their keep. They help in the building and with very kind terms, they pay back their homes slowly. That is to preserve the dignity in that transaction. Habitat for Humanity stresses the need for core human values of kindness and consideration.

*Habitat houses are sold to homepartner families at no profit. Homepartners repay through affordable, zero-interest, inflation-adjusted mortgage loans. These monthly mortgage payments are pooled into a Fund for Humanity so that the amortization of one house will help build another ("House-for-a-House" principle). Ang galeng naman neto! Wuhooo. Learn more about Habitat and ways to help them out.
Discussions ensued. Each guest contributed expertise based on their points of view because of the work that they do. Bong talked to Warren, Warren dealt with Tonypet while Greg supported Tonypet with the GK youth view and the discussions went round.
"Sitting in" (as he calls it) is musician and artist, Rico Blanco. He passed by the show to learn about homelessness and to help Lourd and I ask questions. He contributed insightfully angled queries for the guests to answer. He asked the much-avoided but necessary question, "So, what does it look like for us? What is the situation, really?" Whew.
Joining the discussion is a post-graduate product of the UP National College of Public Administration and Governance (NCPAG, Agnes Nonog. She brings up the subject of urban migration. How lack of employment opportunities pushes people to migrate to the cities. And because work is difficult to find, people tend to squat all together in idleness. Siksikan.
Lourd asks if homelessness is a purely economic state. He also shares the weird fact that despite shelter being up there in the 'most basic-needs list' of the human being, homelessness is one of the least discussed topic in circles. I think it's because of the multi-dimensionality of the problem. Nakakatakot nga kasi talagang pag-usapan ang isang problema na parang ang tagal, laki, at ga-higante ang kinakailangang solusyon. Katakot nga naman kasi yon. But here we are trying to talk about it. More information is a good precedent for better and more sound solutions.
I think the problem of housing is most complex. Based on my interviews of offenders in jail, most of the narrations of the crimes they've committed would've been avoided if they didn't live in such squalid, congested conditions. Dahil ang sikip sa bahay, ang daming cases of incest, rape, homicide because of petty fights. Eh ang sikip nga naman kasi kung saan sila nakatira kaya't minsan talagang, --napupuno sila. (another pun, aba...) And I re-assert Bong's point. It is multi-dimensional, therefore the solutions have to be just as (or possibly more) multi-dimensional. Gusto ko rin ang sinabi ni Warren na talagang kailangan LAHAT ng Pilipino ay tumulong. Maski papaano, maski gaano ka liit, tumulong ka. Tumulong tayo. We may not have directly built a house tonight, but certainly the conversation that flew out onto our airwaves must've sparked some ideas in some of the listeners. If you feel the urge to help or contribute to any of these movements, go ahead and surf their websites. Donate, build, join, share. Whatever. Sabi nga ni Warren ng Habitat for Humanity, kaya pa 'to. Basta't tumulong tayo. Hindi lang GK, hindi lang government, hindi lang Habitat. Kasama dapat LAHAT.

Okey, Rock Ed, tama na satsat. Trabaho na tayo. Game. Mag volunteer kayo dito.

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Cut and pasted below is a letter I kept for 18 years. Bong Bongolan wrote this for me before I entered UP as a Freshman.




It was the encouragement of young student leaders like Bong who helped me shape my dreams of someday helping our country. I read the letter on air as my tribute to him and the other people who preceded the idea of Rock Ed Philippines. (Sila Chito Gascon, Miro Quimbo, Mardi Mapa, CP David, (naks, Ceep!) at Amante Jimenez)
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Letter reads as follows:

1 Feb 1989

Dear Gang,

As promised, here's the note.

To tell you frankly, I'm not comfortable with the "Hon(orable)" stuff at all. However, I have to fulfill the duties and responsibilities accompanying the position.

I look forward to your transfer here to UP Diliman to pursue a college degree. The way I look at it, you are more than prepared for college life. Moreover, I look forward to having a new comrade-in-arms in you --- one who will take on the cudgels and persevere in the effort to advance the rights and welfare of the students and the people.

Work hard at growing up and at improving yourself. What we make of ourselves is what we offer to the Filipino masses.

Pls. keep in touch.

Love, Bong
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Rock Ed Radio thanks you for listening and participating on Sunday nights @8pm. Because learning is still the new rock and roll.



To continue this conversation, feel free to post comments on this entry or email commentsrock@gmail.com. We will forward your questions to the guests and they have agreed to reply as best they can.

Sunday, June 17, 2007

June 24 Topic: "Bahay ko po?" Let's try to know more about homelessness in the Philippines.

Let's talk to people who work to address the problem of homelessness. This will be difficult but let's try to move a bit closer to understand this looming challenge.

Let's hear it from Home Guarantee Corp President, Bong Bongolan, Pag-Ibig Fund's CEO Atty Miro Quimbo, Habitat for Humanity's Warren Ubongen and Gawad Kalinga's Greg "G-Money" Mercado. We also invited Mr. Tonypet Albano as a supporter of Gawad Kalinga.

May pag-asa ba tayo dito?

Subukan natin intindihin ang sitwasyon, para makibihagi tayong lahat sa solusyon.

Magtanong, makinig, makilahok.

Ask questions regarding the problem of homelessness in the Philippines.



photo credit: Jake Verzosa copyright 2005

June 17: A VERY OPEN FORUM with some poll survivors.

This episode promised to be a very different one. We invited (for the first time, on any Rock Ed event, for that matter) elected officials to take on the mic. Whew! We set out to debunk our bad baaaaad habit of "US and THEM" ---so tonight, we opened the airwaves to those we so dislike listening to. Haha. Let's give them a chance to prove us wrong. Perhaps there are good politicians abound, hindi lang natin sila naririnig o nababasa sa dyaryo?
Pre-show, the group was already chatting (ito ang mga dapat na eh-air na parts eh). Lourd and I are poised and prepared. Translation: Na-Google na namin itong tatlo.
Third-term Navotas Mayor Toby Tiangco showed up in jeans and a t-shirt ready to rock the booth with narrations of his sturdy string of experience as an undefeated Mayor. He explains that the legacy he wants to leave Navotas is that there is hope for seemingly 'hopeless' situations. He narrates the problem of flooding of streets in Navotas and shares the Bombastik water pump projects they have established in and around the area to address this. Toby struck me as a hard-line and very hands-on mayor. So maybe there's hope, after all. Hmmm.
Rep. Joseph Emilio Aguinaldo Abaya or Jun is a second-term Congressman. He was in the Navy, educated in the Annapolis Naval Academy, Jun came back and took the reins from his father (former Rep. Del Abaya) a few years ago and finished his law degree from the Ateneo de Manila while in office. He passed the bar, by the way, being the only person in public office to do that this year. He explains the role of Representatives and how the abstract act of "creating laws" concretely helps ease the living conditions of many. Jun is a sincere public servant, he really holds the welfare of Cavite close to him. Ah hah. Baka nga may pag-asa pa... mukhang mababait talaga tong mga to...unless na "hypnotize sa taktikang politika" na din kami ni Lourd... haha
Genuine Opposition's frontman, Atty. Adel Tamano is candid and speaks clearly. Kaya nga spokesman eh. He emphasizes that there are a lot of things in our political culture that should be changed. The contribution of "big funders" concentrates the power too much, he says that perhaps the support of many 'smaller funders' might prove to be a more effective way to go about a campaign. This may diffuse the possible 'utang na loob' that our officials feel towards the big funders. Hmm. Such honesty from a frontman. Lines are now beginning to blur. Maybe we DO have hope. Ah hah. Tamano also tells the group that he has encountered several good people in politics and that they are not all monsters. He laments the lack of representation of the Muslim population in the administration. He also cited that being enraged about the death of Musa Dimasidsing, a teacher who exposed partly the Maguindanao elections fiasco is not a 'political party' decision, it is a human being thing. Abaya asserts with Tamano that everyone, including the administration should dig deeper into this and let justice reign. Human life and the protection of it (esp in the situation of risking one's safety for integrity) should be protected by all --regardless of political color. Lourd and I are sometimes shell-shocked that these three gentlemen take on the questions we throw out with the fantastic balance of the 'safe politician on-air' and the brazen out and out face-the-music attitude. Ang gagaling nila, kakatakot. Sana mababait talaga at matitino talaga tong mga to... sayang naman ang dunong.
Carol Bello relays her experience as a pollwatcher. She mourns the violence that still happens and encourages all private citizens to participate and be more engaged in political movements. She insists that many times we really deserve the government we elect. Therefore the 'bad system we inherit' is only such because we accept it or tolerate it. If you don't like the system, join it and change it. Galing ni Carol. Teka, baka dapat tumakbo din siya....Rep. Abaya and Mayor Toby Tiangco both say go ahead, put the public official to the test. Ask them questions. It is your right to do so. Hold public officials to their promises. But participate and contribute as well. Deserve your voice in this arena. Deserve the privilege to demand from the people in office.
I suppose we can now revise our campaign -- the "Keep Your Promises" campaign is really for all of us and not just the politicians.
If we keep the lines between US and THEM open, then maybe we're on our way.
I'm sure narrowmindedness seldom helped history anyway.

Sunday, June 10, 2007

June 17 -- The BackStage View: A Very Open Forum with Survivors of the Polls

Let's talk to participants of the recent elections. Ask them whatever you are curious about. What was the view from their end of the stage. Ano ang nakita nila na hindi natin nakita?


"Tapos na ba boksing?"

After the recent elections, we'd like to ask people who were on the literal platforms. Mga nasa backstage o mga nasa entablado nung recent circus.

We have a second-term winner for Congress (U2 fan, Rep. Jun Abaya, 1st District Cavite) ...we have a pollwatcher (Carol Bello, native of Abra and lead singer of Pinikpikan) ...we have a spokesperson for a political party (Genuine Opposition's Atty. Adel Tamano who appreciates hip hop music...) ... and a Mayor on his last-term. (New Wave listener -- Partido Navoteno's frontman, Toby Tiangco.)

Senator-elect Chiz Escudero declined our invitation due to a family event tonight, while Senator-Elect Alan Cayetano has not confirmed yet.


It's about time FM participates in a conversation with these guys. (This way, you stay informed without having to bear the AM radio network-patent-voice-intonations. Napansin mo ba, pare-pareho silang mag taas-baba ng mga tono sa pagsasalita?)

Magtanong kayo! Derechong tanong, derechong sagot.

Hala, sugod. Sayang pagkakataon. Magtanong dito sa www.rockedradio.com at abangan ang sagot sa Linggo.

Mahigpit na ipinagbabawal ang bolahang politiko sa Rock Ed Radio. Kaya derechong tanong, derechong sagot. Rakenrol tayo. Yahu.

Monday, June 4, 2007

Science, Sex and Society

Rock Ed Radio invites you to a healthier discussion on sex. The phenomenon, the realities, the mysteries and the science of sex. What has been giggled about, frowned upon, kept secret, kept sacred, argued about, debated on, ignored (!), avoided, should really just be talked about frankly and comfortably. We all have our opinions on the sexual act depending on our religious inclinations, moral lines, traditional upbringing, media exposure, literary encounters - but do we really accept its reality?

Does sexual attraction start in the brain?

Is sex just biological? Do we understand the social implications of our attitude towards sex?

Hmmm.

Without the usual giggling, disrespectful perversion, or porn attitude, without the moral highground please -- let's talk about this. Subukan lang natin.

After all, we usually make better decisions when we are more informed.

Post questions or comments here before June 10 so we can include your thoughts on the show.

Sunday, June 3, 2007

Gay Pride Episode

Rock Ed Radio expected a lot of fun tonight, even before the show started we were all chatting up a storm already. Guests settled in. And the NU107 booth had the atmosphere of a high altitude party minus beer or food or extraneous bland company. Definitely no small talk here.
Everyone settles in. We decided to talk about the surface of the iceberg topic called "Being Gay in the Philippines" wheeee. Let's go. What an all-star cast we had on this one. Prof. Danton Remoto, Chairperson of the Ladlad Partylist (and a recent Congressional candidate) starts off the hour. He says that these days are kinder to the coming-out of gays because of many factors. Literature in the academe has ushered in the more comfortable acceptance of what the general population describe as a 'different sexual orientation.' He, is partly responsible for the fight that the gay collective has put up against the bigots who are hateful of homosexuals. Prof. Ramon Bautista (of the UP Film Dep) better known for his Ramon Bautista show on MTV listens in intently, so does Sir Francis Brew. Both Francis and Ramon represent the straight male tribe.
The Rock Ed straight contingent are all ears. Jaime, Lourd, and Gang listen in rapt attention. Trying to absorb everything, maybe re-assessing if they are really straight. Hehehe
Ramon Bautista says that despite being straight all the way, he can appreciate who is good looking and who isn't among men. He mentions John Lloyd Cruz as his example but it doesn't mean he wants to date John Lloyd. (Incidentally, Ramon: I got a text msg from John Lloyd -also a Rock Ed volunteer--and he says ayaw ka din nya i-date. May girlfriend na daw siya. Hehe loko lang...) Bautista is a media practitioner and a UP Film professor, his field sees a lot of gay participation and he says he doesn't mind this at all.
Little Ms. Philippines/child star/now musician Ms. Aiza Seguerra is candid and straight forward about her preference. She has known her gender identity even as a child in Eat Bulaga. Aiza is stern that 'if you have it, you have it.' Regardless of outside influence. So growing up with the Tito, Vic, and Joey humor has nothing to do with her sexual orientation as an adult. She shares that the most difficult part of coming out was really more about possibly disappointing the important people in her life. She says it's mostly about family. It takes a lot of courage and being self-sufficient to stand one's ground on this one. Lalo na sa isang Catholic atmosphere. She's so steady that it's hard to reconcile the vision of the be-ribboned little girl doing the duck walk when she speaks. This one has more wisdom than we imagine. Mahusay ang tindig ni Aiza. Rock Ed Radio's so proud to have her debut on NU107 airwaves with us. Growing up in a family of 5 boys and a military father, Shu Uemura's EJ Mallorca says he's been blessed. He doesn't have the horror stories of being ostracized or teased as a child. His brothers accepted him even without the "coming out talk." Basta ganun na. He is attached to his Mom and says that his family has been nothing but embracing of his gender leaning. Kakatawa kasi nag prom king ata nung high school si EJ, pero ang crush niya yung Corps Commander. Danton seconds this motion. Ang saya nito. Sana nakinig kayo.
Tatum Ancheta is our wild card. She has had a string of boyfriends, does art direction for People Asia, she is kikay and fashionable but she prefers women when it comes to relationships. She is certain about this despite having had relationships with men. In the end, Tatum says, you fall in love with the person not the gender. Tatum feels like a free spirited will inside a fashionista's body. What a motley crew we had that night. Did you tune in?? As I write this summary on our gay episode, the more I keep thinking, "Maaaaan, you should've been there." (pun intended)
Pam Pastor is decidedly not so decidedly straight. She is straight now. Editing for 2bU and the Super section of the Inquirer does allow her to swim in the ocean of queer friends. And she revels in them. In fact, she says dealbreaker for a guy is if he is homophobic. Pam struck us more as truly open-minded instead of confused. (ibang-iba yon) She has tried to have a relationship with another female but a double dose of PMS in one union was just not feasible for her so she figured she's straight. She is also our source of advice when it comes to gay-straight friendships. She says don't force anyone to come out even if you already know he or she is gay. For the non-straight one --don't force it either, come out when you're ready. That's always the best course to take to avoid misunderstanding and a crossfire of intentions. Pam is my nominee for the Nobel Peace Prize on compassion for and acceptance of homosexuality.
Danton is all out. He has never liked women. He prefers strong quiet men. I think in both the hetero and the homo methods of courtship and relationship management, the rules are the same. We fall in love with the people we fall in love with. Because they have traits that are attractive to us, they possess characteristics that complement, perhaps, our lives and our minds. Goes the same for both sides of the line.
Madami ding nakakatawang comments tulad ng "ang bi-sexual ba ay segurista lang?" o "ang bi-sexual ba bading din?" "ano ang tell-tale signs ng isang bading?" ...the list goes on. It only shows our fascination for what seems to be more expansive than our norms. Tingin ko ang mga homophobic ay talagang namamangha lang sa possibilities na na pe-present ng mga bading o lesbyana. I think what the bigots feel is true awe (maybe even envy and curiousity) and then because it's too much for their mediocre minds to handle it, the easiest manifestation is hate. Then again, I could be very wrong.Rock Ed Radio decided not to touch on the stands of any creed or faith following on this one, that might take up too much time and perhaps should be explored at another forum altogether. We went over the time limit as it was.
Allen Ginsberg, a beat poet from the 50's was born on June 3 1926 and he served as the inspiration of last night's show. Even in the ultra-conservative 40's, he was already open and brazen about discussing homosexuality --he continuously attempted to force the world into dialogue about controversial subjects because he thought no change could be made in a polite silence.

We wanted to talk about this and we did.
Gang and Lourd posing with the powerhouse line up of guests tonight. Check this out. Jaime Garchitorena (straight) reunited with 90's Eat Bulaga colleague, Aiza Seguerra. Inquirer's Pam Pastor (diagonal/straight) beside Ladlad Chairperson Danton Remoto. Shu Uemura's EJ Mallorca, People Asia's Tatum Ancheta hamming it up beside the Ramon Bautista show himself, Ramon Bautista. (straight)

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The world has its share of mysteries, but what is most puzzling for Rock Ed Radio is the narrow-mindedness of many even in this era of knowledge-based kindness, acceptance, and wide open mind-spaces.

Tingin ko ang mga makikitid ang utak ang mas weird kesa sa bading, lesbyana, bi-sexual, transsexual o kung ano pang pwedeng kombinasyon nung apat.

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